It all starts with a phone call, there is no charge for this..

During this call you get a feel as to whether I may help, and am the right fit for you..

Often people are nervous and find it difficult to even know specifics.. they just know they can’t carry on in the same way anymore..

We make a plan.. a time.. and we begin..

This is a journey.. where patients are lovingly supported.

I work with people and children in all kinds of emotional difficulty..

Whether the problems exist within their own behaviour, or in the behaviour of others and it’s effect. 

My intention and therefore focus in my work with patients is to steadily reveal to them through our communication, the re-examination of how they remained attached in their early years, and how in order to do so their authenticity was hidden and altered..

Depression and anxiety, loss, sadness and loneliness, are normal human responses, suppressing them may provide temporary relief.. but never emotional freedom..

So often we are unaware that the effects of our childhood beliefs, and our emotional experiences within them corrupt our relationships, both with ourselves, and others, and in turn produce long term anxieties, fears and destructive coping strategies that prevent true belonging, and our capacity for intimacy..

We are left with a need to either be detached.. or.. anxiously attached..

Here with our perceived value invested only in our ability to either fix or please others.. this limits our ability to feel joy and autonomy.. thus impaired we are prone to poor decisions and unhealthy relationships, where we are unconsciously repeating negative patterns again, and again..

During this shared journey with a patient.. together we go back.. we discover where our Mothers “were” emotionally when we were conceived and when we were born and growing..

The first year of life is when so much happens, that affects how we behave and feel.. much of this occurs way before verbal communication.. trauma is also inherited and comes through blood lines and lineage..

As children we are helpless, and dependent, so our safety, nurture and wellbeing, as well as the truth, relies on so much we cannot effect without maladaptation.. as well as our environment both circumstantially and emotionally..

Layer by layer like an onion we shed what is untrue and unneeded, until we find our true self and true nature..

We are free simply to be.. to say and act without fear.. we process and complete our loss and our trauma..

We transform..